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Balancing Act

So much of what we do requires finding a balance. To different people we are different people. I am a mother, wife, sister, daughter, aunt, cousin, principal, teacher, colleague, and friend. Different roles sometimes require multiple responses. As of this writing, I am on my way to #NYSCATE14 and have just said good bye to my son at the train station. He wasn't all that pleased I was leaving to go to "another" conference (as he put it). He eventually came around and hugged me good bye.

While there is a part of me that feels guilty about giving up part of my weekend (which is usually mostly family time), I know that part of being a connected, collaborative leader requires this.  On my own, I am an introvert by nature. People will be surprised to read that. But, part of my job, as a leader, requires me to be an extrovert. Since that does not come easily for me, I have used conferences and connections with amazing colleagues to improve my skills in this area.

How do you stay balanced but moving forward?

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  1. UnknownNovember 23, 2014 at 11:00 AM

    It is an on-going struggle to keep the balance. Love the blog. Makes me feel like I am not alone in the challenge. Love the graphic, too!
    ENJOY THIS CONFERENCE!! Looking forward to your sharing with our building when you return!!!

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    1. UnknownNovember 23, 2014 at 11:02 AM

      Thanks so much for the comment. I've been thinking about this idea of balance a lot lately with everything going on....

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